Tuesday, September 13, 2011

About relationships and inherited trapped emotions

I would like to take a moment and write about relationships.
I am not talking about casual, business type connections where everyone can easily relate to everyone else following a certain protocol. I am talking about deep, personal, "know who I really am" type of relationships.
How many people in our lives really know who we are: the whole package, with our doubts, fears and anxieties included?
The number is probably small because this type of relationship demands deep, unwavering trust. We put our tender heart in the hands of another. Our hearts are sensitive. Deep down we are vulnerable beings.
If someone has ever betrayed that trust, we think twice before opening up to anyone else again. The pain is just too great and it may take a long time to truly trust again.
The heart is like a fine jewel, a jewel though that is not meant to be thrown around or damaged. But we know that it happens and has happened in the past, generation after generation. Does the pain our ancestors experienced during their life  affect us? Yes, it does. This may surprise many as we think we are the person who looks back at us when we are in front of a mirror.
We are much more than that: each one of us is the product of our lineage, of our history. Not just his-story, but her-story and all the forefathers/mothers stories. We come from their fabric physically, mentally and emotionally.
In her book, Theta healing, Vianna Stibal explains that we carry in us the memories of our ancestors. She says: "Within this constrict of DNA is a genetic memory that goes back at least seven generations...".
In his book, The Emotion Code, Dr. Bradley Nelson explains : "In the same way you can inherit your eye color or the shape of your nose from your father and mother and other ancestors, you can also inherit trapped emotions from them."
How many of us grew up, observing our parents with their habits and ways of managing life and vowed to *never* act that way  only to find out a couple of decades later that we act just like them. This happens especially when children come along and challenge us to the core.
We  know that some emotions run in families: for some it's helplessness, depression, anxiety..etc. In mine it was clear that anger was dominant on my father's side, coming from his dad and passed on to me. For years, I wondered how I could get rid of this family curse. It may not be a 'curse' by definition but it surely felt like one, one of the "home-made" kind, passed on and on until someone breaks it.
Since it is an energy, only energy work can dissolve it. Only like can move like. For example if you have a rock that you need to move what do you do? Do you spend hours and hours talking about what the rock looks like and ponder how it got there, who is responsible for it, etc? Or do you take a tool that is a solid piece of material and just get it out of the way? The former is what many people do.  It does not work, though. The latter is the way to deal with it.

Inherited trapped emotions are like that rock that blocks us from moving forward smoothly in life. Since emotions are energy, an 'energy tool' needs to be used to move it.  This is exactly what the Emotion Code is, an energy therapy that helps us release trapped emotions, inherited and personal ones.
I was amazed how well it works. It helped me so much get rid of my own burdens, that is why I decided to get certified and help others with it.
Since we were on the topic of inherited trapped emotions today, I would like to close with a testimony a lady sent me after having had a session with me a while ago.  Many trapped emotions were released during that session, it was clear that there had been a lot of violence and suffering in her ancestral line.
As about 12 trapped emotions were released during the one hour session, a deep change occurred within her. I asked her of she could write a small testimony to share her experience.

 This is what she wrote:
"For a long time I have felt that some of my (female) ancestors (possible Indian/Mexican) had been sexually abused/misused in their life.  The feeling of fear, terror, disgust, rape would come up whenever my husband and I would get intimate. It was very difficult for me to initiate intimacy with my God given spouse. Of course, it was also difficult for my husband because he could feel my spirit. I would quietly be praying while my husband and I were together. Last night, was different, there were no feelings of rape or abuse and I was the one to initiate. 
I was so surprised when I realized this. I believe this was able to happen because of your help in breaking down the heart wall that was inherited from my ancestors. I look forward to another session with you to help release any other trapped emotions I might have.
It has been over a month now since I had this initial session with you and that trapped emotions that you released has not returned. I can honestly say that there has been a major difference. Thank you !        Sincerely, VA"

 (end of testimony)

May we all find peace, love and freedom within and take the initiative do the work necessary to achieve that.
©Doris Crompton
PS: Please visit my new website: www.liberatingemotions.com
 

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